- Guys in Skinny Jeans - No.
- Girls in Skinny Jeans - Not many can actually pull it off
- Skinny Jeans - Some people just can't accept the fact that they CAN'T pull them off.. stop selling them
- People Telling Me How I Feel - What, are you a mind reader or something?
- Guys Who Do Their Eyebrows - Yeah, thanks for making it even harder for the non-plastic girls
- People IMing You When You're 'Appear Offline" - TAKE THE HINT. If I'm no online, I don't want to talk to you
- Back Biters - Get a back bone. Say it to my face
- Gossipers - Are you so insignificant that you can't think of anything about yourself interesting to talk about that you have to talk about others?
- Liars - Why bother talking?
- Yams - Blech
- When You Iron a Shirt and Then Decide Not to Wear It - I did not just waste 5 minutes on my life NOT to wear this shirt
- B.O - Shower, deodarant, body spray = friends
- Socks With Sandals - NO.
- Homophobs - If the gays aren't coming onto you, then just let them be
- People Who Act Like They Know Everything - Yeah, just shut up. You're not fooling anyone.
- Happy People - What the hell are you so damn happy about?
- When You Mail Packages and They Get Sent Back To You - If I mailed it out, I don't want it back damn it
- Jay-Walkers - USE THE FREAKIN CROSS WALK
- When Attatchments Take Forever to Attatch - Why??
- Clingy People - Ever heard of personal space?
- Jealous People - If you want to hate yourself, leave me out of it
- People Who Dress Half Naked - No one wants to see that
- Kids Who Stare at You at Restaurants - Yeah, cause thats what we all love, a lil brat staring at you
- People who say matore instead of mature - You don't sound smart so just stop.
And the list goes on...
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
What Really Grinds My Gears
Monday, March 30, 2009
Tonight I'm Dining Alone..
People are over-rated.
Friendships, relationships, acquiantanceships.. when push comes to shove, at the end of the day, is it ever ever worth it?
People are selfish beings... like Adam Smith said, people do things purely out of self interest. They use you until they have no use for you, then toss you away.
Is there truly a pure friendship? A friendship as in, "I'm your friend solely because I like you and want nothing from you". No, there isn't. Why would you keep someone around that you have no need for? As cynical as it sounds, it doesn't make sense to.
Having friends is tiring and emotionally draining, not only do you have your own problems and work, but you have to have the energy to deal with someone else's. Why on earth would you go through that if you received nothing out of the friendship?
So, after all the drama and spent time, is it, being used, really worth it? Because that's what it boils down to.. two people mutually using each other.
Relationships? Same deal, but it gets even more complicated. It's one person using another to fill a void in their life. They need meaning, companionship, love, someone to love, and they use that person to satisfy those needs.
Relationships are draining, there's always the fear of 'falling out' of love. There is that constant need to prove your love and devotion and the constant craving for some in return. Relationships are even more selfish than friendships, they are insatiable.
Is the pressure and companionship worth being used to fill a hole? Because that's what it boils down to.. two people mutually using each other to fight loneliness.
Acquiantanceships are perhaps the safest option. Nothing is expected from any party involved. You're not expected to return calls, listen to problems, help out, be loyal, or care. No obligations, no expectations. But if they do need the other person, there's no front, no facade of being friends or lovers.. its a straight up 'hey, I need you for this, just this, and then you can get lost'. No emotions to deal with, no favors to return, no pressure.
But What Happens When One User No Longer Needs the Usee?
Somebody gets hurt.
There is never a guarantee that both persons mutually stop needing each other; sometimes, one person still needs the other. But can you honestly expect someone to hang around so you can continue to use them? No. They will out of self interest, as Adam Smith said, go off to find someone who can satisfy their needs that their previous friend or partner could not.
The right thing to do? Let the person go, and allow both of the people involved to move on. People are selfish though, they can't let things go if they feel they can still use them. They'd rather hold the other person down than let the person get on without them.
Selfishness is behind every friendship, relationship, and acquiantanceship. It's behind every action, thought, and desire.
Selfishness is what drives the world forward and pulls individuals backward.
But I guess at the end of the day...if I use you and you use me and we're both aware of us using each other, than its not that bad, is it?
Friendships, relationships, acquiantanceships.. when push comes to shove, at the end of the day, is it ever ever worth it?
People are selfish beings... like Adam Smith said, people do things purely out of self interest. They use you until they have no use for you, then toss you away.
Is there truly a pure friendship? A friendship as in, "I'm your friend solely because I like you and want nothing from you". No, there isn't. Why would you keep someone around that you have no need for? As cynical as it sounds, it doesn't make sense to.
Having friends is tiring and emotionally draining, not only do you have your own problems and work, but you have to have the energy to deal with someone else's. Why on earth would you go through that if you received nothing out of the friendship?
So, after all the drama and spent time, is it, being used, really worth it? Because that's what it boils down to.. two people mutually using each other.
Relationships? Same deal, but it gets even more complicated. It's one person using another to fill a void in their life. They need meaning, companionship, love, someone to love, and they use that person to satisfy those needs.
Relationships are draining, there's always the fear of 'falling out' of love. There is that constant need to prove your love and devotion and the constant craving for some in return. Relationships are even more selfish than friendships, they are insatiable.
Is the pressure and companionship worth being used to fill a hole? Because that's what it boils down to.. two people mutually using each other to fight loneliness.
Acquiantanceships are perhaps the safest option. Nothing is expected from any party involved. You're not expected to return calls, listen to problems, help out, be loyal, or care. No obligations, no expectations. But if they do need the other person, there's no front, no facade of being friends or lovers.. its a straight up 'hey, I need you for this, just this, and then you can get lost'. No emotions to deal with, no favors to return, no pressure.
But What Happens When One User No Longer Needs the Usee?
Somebody gets hurt.
There is never a guarantee that both persons mutually stop needing each other; sometimes, one person still needs the other. But can you honestly expect someone to hang around so you can continue to use them? No. They will out of self interest, as Adam Smith said, go off to find someone who can satisfy their needs that their previous friend or partner could not.
The right thing to do? Let the person go, and allow both of the people involved to move on. People are selfish though, they can't let things go if they feel they can still use them. They'd rather hold the other person down than let the person get on without them.
Selfishness is behind every friendship, relationship, and acquiantanceship. It's behind every action, thought, and desire.
Selfishness is what drives the world forward and pulls individuals backward.
But I guess at the end of the day...if I use you and you use me and we're both aware of us using each other, than its not that bad, is it?
Saturday, March 28, 2009
What do those hissy fits teach you except how to cry, pussy, cry?
ommmgggggggg
I don't want to stuuuddddyyy.
Man, seriously, I'm sorry, but I do not find 'The Articulate Voice' to be a captivating book worth skimming through it, let alone reading it. So what if I don't say the [U] sound correctly because I refuse to look like an idiot:
I don't want to stuuuddddyyy.
Man, seriously, I'm sorry, but I do not find 'The Articulate Voice' to be a captivating book worth skimming through it, let alone reading it. So what if I don't say the [U] sound correctly because I refuse to look like an idiot:
Would YOU want to look like that?
Yeah, didn't think so.
I'd rather keep my lips motionless and distort sounds than look like I'm trying to kiss/suck the person I'm talking to.
Damn articulation.
Love! I shall not love, yet I'll still sing about it.
So. Sarah thought she could out do me, did she?
Well... All I have to say is this:
You're smart, but in a stupid way.
That salad last night? yeah.. I was there..
The slicing your finger with a pen knife? I saw that..
The building a lamp post with the top part 5 times as big and heavy as the tiny, dinky post? I watched..
Typing without putting the cursor in the comment box? I heard that..
Those 10 blog posts you have on me are nothing, NOTHING.
This means War.
Well... All I have to say is this:
You're smart, but in a stupid way.
That salad last night? yeah.. I was there..
The slicing your finger with a pen knife? I saw that..
The building a lamp post with the top part 5 times as big and heavy as the tiny, dinky post? I watched..
Typing without putting the cursor in the comment box? I heard that..
Those 10 blog posts you have on me are nothing, NOTHING.
This means War.
Futile, the futile, it outweighs the beautiful.
Procrastination is the key to happiness.
It allows you to do so many other things with your valuable time like make a totally pointless, random blog that will probably begin collecting dust in a couple of days instead of say, writing a paper on the French Revolution quoting from a book you don't have and cannot find ANYWHERE.
Lynn Hunt's book needs to DIE.
It allows you to do so many other things with your valuable time like make a totally pointless, random blog that will probably begin collecting dust in a couple of days instead of say, writing a paper on the French Revolution quoting from a book you don't have and cannot find ANYWHERE.
Lynn Hunt's book needs to DIE.
Sarah on the other hand is the key to indigestion :\
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